5 Questions To Ask If You Want to Elope
So you are thinking about eloping - but what questions do you need to be asking yourself???
Eloping is becoming more and more popular among brides today, as the thought of less planning, less stress, less money, and more intimacy is extremely enticing. I would have considered eloping if my husband didn’t love celebrating with friends so much!
Below, I’ve outlined some questions to answer as you plan out the idea of an elopement - the best part? It’s totally easy and stress-free
Do you want friends and family to attend, or do you want it to be just the two of you? Eloping is an AMAZING way to have an intimate ceremony, but some people still want to include their friends and family - which you totally can! Sit down with your fiance and discuss if you want it completely private between the two of you, or if you want to include family and/or close friends in the celebration. Keep in mind that if you plan for a destination elopement, you want to make sure that those members are able to comfortably afford the trip with you.
Are you okay with forgoing a wedding registry? If you aren’t inviting people to your wedding, you probably also shouldn’t be asking people for gifts. The good news - you are most likely saving thousands of dollars from not having a full wedding + reception, so you can put that money towards your life together!
What is your dream location? Elopements are a GREAT way to choose an amazing destination to get married at. Do research online and talk to potential vendors in the area you are looking at to find a spot that is PRIVATE and beautiful. A lot of times, the most frequented spots are also huge tourist areas, so it may take a little bit of time to find the perfect location.
Consider eloping on a weekday! Traditionally, weddings are on weekends because most people attending are off of work on the weekend. However, you probably won’t have many people (or anyone!) attending, so choosing a weekday can save you money on a photographer AS WELL as limit the amount of tourists that will probably be around your location.
Do you want to host some type of reception for friends and family to still celebrate with you? If you really love the idea of a private elopement but can’t leave your family/friends out of the celebration entirely, consider doing a reception with them! You can schedule it right after the elopement, or even later on after you’ve gotten settled. Since it’s just a reception, you don’t have to worry too much about spending on extravagance - make it a fun party that is centered around things you love.
Remember, this is a joint decision, so make sure your fiance is on the same page with you before you jump ahead with an elopement. And if you are struggling for a location, I may be biased, but Colorado is a FANTASTIC spot to start your journey together ;)